A beginner's guide to vibrators

Everyone starts somewhere, and there is no wrong way to be curious. Whether you have been thinking about a first vibrator for years or the idea only crossed your mind last week, this hub is a calm, unhurried place to find your feet.

We have kept every guide in plain English, with no jargon you have to decode and no assumptions about who you are, who you share your life with or what you already know. You will find out what a bullet vibrator actually is, how to narrow down a first choice without feeling overwhelmed, which common myths are worth letting go of, and how to bring the subject up with a partner if you would like to.

If you would rather skip straight to something simple, the Bijou Classic Bullet is a lovely place to begin: slim, featherlight and quiet, with ten settings, at £10.99. If you would like something rechargeable and bath-friendly, the Lune Rechargeable Mini Bullet has one easy button and is rated IPX7.

Whatever you choose, it arrives in plain, unbranded packaging, and your bank statement simply says "BH Commerce Ltd". Take your time, read as much or as little as you like, and remember that the right toy is simply the one that feels right for you.