Lube and compatibility

Lube is one of the simplest ways to make any toy feel more comfortable. A few drops add glide, reduce friction and help vibration feel smoother. Yet the lube aisle can be confusing, and the wrong choice can damage a toy you love. This guide explains the main types in plain English and how to keep your toy and your lube happy together.

Why use lube at all?

Natural moisture varies from person to person and from day to day. Stress, hormones, some medications and life stages such as the menopause can all play a part. Many people simply find lube makes things feel nicer, whatever their circumstances. Using it is completely normal and not a sign that anything is wrong.

The NHS notes that lubricants can help with dryness, and suggests speaking to a GP or pharmacist if dryness is persistent or uncomfortable. You can read more on the NHS vaginal dryness page and in our menopause and pleasure guide.

What are the main types of lube?

Water-based lube

Water-based lube is the most versatile choice and the one we recommend for every toy we sell. It is easy to clean off your skin, your toy and your sheets. Look for a simple formula without strong fragrance, warming or tingling additives, especially if you have sensitive skin.

Silicone-based lube

Silicone lube lasts longer and stays slippery in the bath or shower, which some people love. The catch is lube compatibility: silicone lube can react with the surface of some silicone toys, leaving them tacky or rough over time. If you would like to use it, patch test first (see below) or keep it for times when a toy is not involved.

Oil-based lube

Oils, including massage oils and coconut oil, can degrade some materials and are harder to clean from a toy's surface. They are best kept for massage rather than toy play.

How do you patch test a lube?

If you want to try a silicone-based lube with a silicone toy:

1. Put a small dab on an inconspicuous area, such as near the base.
2. Leave it for a few minutes, or up to an hour.
3. Wipe it off and wash the area with warm water and mild soap.
4. Check the surface. If it feels sticky, rough or changed, do not use that lube with that toy.

When in doubt, water-based is always the safe choice.

Which lube works with our toys?

Our toys are made from body-safe silicone, ABS or both, and water-based lube suits every one of them. A few examples:

• The Lune Rechargeable Mini Bullet is fully waterproof (IPX7), so you can rinse lube away under warm water in seconds.
• The Duet Dual Massage Wand is soft-touch silicone and rated IPX7, so it is happy in the bath. Stick to water-based lube with it, as silicone-based lube can damage silicone.
• The Rouge Lipstick Bullet is splash-proof, so rinse lube away under the tap, but do not submerge it.

Which lube is best for sensitive skin?

If you are prone to irritation, simpler is usually better. Some people prefer to avoid glycerin, parabens, fragrance and "warming" or "cooling" ingredients. The NHS suggests that if you notice irritation, stop using the product. If you have ongoing discomfort, a GP or pharmacist can advise.

Cleaning up

After using lube, wash your toy with warm water and mild, unscented soap or a toy cleaner, rinse it if it is water-resistant enough, and let it air dry before storing. Our step-by-step guide to cleaning your vibrator covers each rating.